To remove the sexual block, you need to understand what it is and where it came from. If you do not enjoy sex with your loved one or even simple touches at all, or you don’t even want to think about it, chances are that there will be a sexual block.
If you are not attracted to your unloved partner, then this is completely normal and there is nothing to worry about. Then allow yourself to love. Do not guess a specific person, let the Universe take care of it and then just live. No need to wait for a meeting. The meeting will happen when necessary, and you will both be ready for it.
The problem arises when there is love, but no attraction. The reason may be the energy block - this is like a cork in the energy body. Energy enters the female body from the earth from below through the feet and rushes up through the energy channels (and must exit through the upper channels in the form of realized actions, thoughts, feelings, etc.), but in the case of a block, the energy either reflects and goes back to the earth (then you have no strength for anything, and a boring monotonous life without creativity and joy), or energy is collected in the genitourinary system and stagnates, accumulates there, provoking illnesses, irritability, aging and chronic fatigue.
The causes associated with diseases, we will not consider in this article. In case of illness, treatment is necessary, which must be supplemented by work on oneself. In no case do you need to think that the problem will go away by itself, as soon as you forgive or love everyone, as many esoteric ones recommend, etc. sites. There is no panacea, so be careful and careful with your body, consult doctors on time.
If there are no obvious health problems, and there is a lack of sexual desire, then you should pay attention to the following reasons.
Loss of interest in a partner
One of the most common reasons. In this case, transformation will be the best line of behavior. Take care of yourself, your interests, your appearance, hobbies, etc. Become more interesting yourself both externally and internally. But do not make claims against the partner. If you take yourself seriously, then your partner will begin to improve, looking at you. Attraction will return due to the fact that the "uninteresting" problem has disappeared. Or the partner will simply self-alleviate naturally if he does not want to grow with you. So the circumstances. And around you there will be a sufficient number of men, among whom you will meet an interesting person for you. The Universe will see your efforts and send the right person.
The idea of sin. Self-ban
If thoughts about the sin of an intimate relationship between a man and a woman climb into your beautiful head, then sexual blocks, and after the illness will be provided. Understand your beliefs. Children are born from sex, everything in the world is the result of the relationship between the Yang and Yin energies. Allow yourself to think about sex, do not suppress the sexual impulse in yourself if it suddenly appears. No need to immediately go in search of someone who will satisfy this impulse. If sexual arousal suddenly appears, then allow yourself to feel all its depth and charm. Just sit back and relax. Think about it, feel it. Allow yourself to flow this energy freely, do not control this flow. The stream itself rushes to where it is needed, healing you and removing the block. You will feel joy from the very sensation of arousal, if you did everything right.
If you forbade yourself to think about sex and engage in it for a long time, then during this relaxation you may even feel the fountain open inside you. Do nothing - just feel. Get to know your sexuality again, maybe this is your first real acquaintance. Let this happen. If there was no impulse, allow yourself to mentally appear. But do not “assign” yourself to whom this impulse should appear. Let this happen without your intervention. Your inner self will react at the right time, if you do not interfere with it to properly configure your body.
Fear of getting pregnant
Such a problem exists. Many women have given up birth control because they have the side effect of lowering libido or a feeling of artificiality in sex. It is important to know that if a child is given, then the necessary material support is also given to the child. The child is always given in time and place. If it is still difficult to realize and decide, then still pick up the necessary funds. There will still be less harm from them than from your dissatisfaction.
Resentment. Betrayal. Violence
These are deep subconscious reasons that can come from childhood itself. If you can’t turn to a psychologist, try to arrange yourself psychotherapy. Remember cases of resentment against men, not necessarily related to sex. Immerse yourself in an unpleasant situation to the maximum, feel all the hostility, disgust, anger, indignation, if any. If you do it right, then negative emotions will begin to dissolve and go away. Do this several times with the same situation. If, recalling a problem situation, you stop responding emotionally to it, then the problem is gone and you can forget about it. This is the most reliable way to check - everything that somehow catches us, continues to act on us in a negative or positive aspect, whether we want it or not. Let it be better hobbies, from which my eyes light up and my heart beats, than hatred and contempt. All unexpressed, suppressed negative emotions settle in our body in the form of energy blocks and diseases, including in the genital area.
Of course, there are other reasons. Named - the most common. To understand the main thing is that unrealized sexual energy deprives a woman of youth, freshness, joy, health, and an interesting fact - material wealth. Therefore, if you want prosperity - work on your sexuality, learn to use it correctly. Sexual energy is the most precious, most creative, most feminine treasure, almost the most valuable thing a woman has. Do not deprive yourself of what your sexuality can give you. Do not be afraid to show it, do not be ashamed and do not invent stupid things for yourself. But of course, squandering such value is also not necessary. Approach the manifestation of your sexuality creatively, with the game, and reverently, carefully - as a woman.