Life is a striped zebra. The white stripe is regularly replaced by black, and the black is replaced by white. But, sometimes, the clouds thicken, the colors fade, and the gap among bad luck and failures is not visible. This can happen to everyone. The main thing is to be able to endure life's tests with honor and get rid of the protracted black streak.
You will need
- Paper;
- a pen.
Instruction manual
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To begin with, change your attitude towards the events of your life. What a person thinks is what happens to him. This is not magic. With their thoughts, people influence their behavior, and by their actions they provoke a change in reality in one direction or another. Therefore, always think only in a positive way, do not allow thoughts of failures, treat failures as a temporary phenomenon and a source of experience.
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Believe in your strength. Unbelief in yourself is another way to get in trouble. The scheme of its action is similar to the above. To get rid of the black streak in life, do not doubt that you deserve only the good, and also that you can definitely achieve this.
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Do not complain. Starting to complain and feel sorry for yourself, you relax, allowing yourself to give up the fight, give up. In addition, this behavior pushes people around you, depriving you of full support.
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Responsible for your actions. Only you can make your life better or worse. And circumstances can always be turned in their favor.
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Live in the present. Memories of past events and dreams of the future will not help you change your present in any way by building the life you dream of. To get rid of the black streak in life, focus on what is happening around you at the moment, on what you can do to overcome difficulties.
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If you want to solve your problems, realize that their cause lies in you, in your behavior, in your actions. Only by taking responsibility for your actions will you have an influence on what is happening to you.
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Once you have a problem, make a clear plan of action to solve the problem. Divide complex cases into several small ones and set specific deadlines. And having made a plan, begin to translate it into reality in order to get rid of the black bar.
note
Starting to act according to plan, stop getting hung up on your problems.
Useful advice
Encourage yourself for every step you have taken successfully on your way out of bad luck.