You have been planning a replenishment in the family for a long time, and finally it happened: the pregnancy test showed two strips! Now, not only your destiny, but also the life of the future baby depends on your further behavior.
Instruction manual
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The realization that you will soon become the mother of a charming baby may take more than one day, or even more than one week. Even if the child is so welcome and long-awaited, you can fall into a stupor after learning that your expectations have been met. After conception, a woman as if opens herself from a new perspective. Now she is responsible not only for herself, but also for the fruit that she wears beneath her heart. Such responsibility scares even those who have been expecting a pregnancy for years. It’s not enough to understand that you are pregnant - you have to accept and love your current state.
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So that your beloved spouse does not fly away after birth from changing diapers and walking with a stroller, teach him in advance that both parents should take care of the baby. Pregnancy itself most often causes mixed feelings in men: joy and panic at the same time. Toxicosis, frequent changes in mood, tearfulness scare a man no less than thoughts that he will have to pick up a tiny child in his arms. Therefore, attend future parents' courses together - this strengthens relationships in the family. Offer a man joint births - many, having seen the birth of a child with their own eyes, are aware of all the hardships that have befallen their spouses, and volunteer themselves to volunteer to help care for the baby.
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Do not give up the support of others - both moral and physical. Entrust heavy bags with groceries from the supermarket to your husband - write him a list so that he can navigate what you need. If you are offered to take work home, rather than suffocating from the forty-degree heat in the office, agree - there’s nothing to do with excessive heroism.
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Once you become pregnant, stop drinking alcohol and cigarettes. This can seriously harm the fetus. It is advisable that your household also support this initiative, since second-hand smoke does no less harm to the baby in the womb.
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