If you are kind and relate to others accordingly, you are not only happier and easier to live, but people treat you the same way. Everything in this world has a connection, so the enclosed kindness will return to you without a doubt. But how to learn to be kinder to people?
Instruction manual
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You should not think that all that you have now is only your personal merit. Often people take part in the construction of our success unnoticed, but their contribution is undeniable. Remember and thank all those who somehow helped you to be exactly who you are now.
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You can do it for yourself, and this is even more important, since the main thing is your sincere feelings and feelings. But it would be much better if you express your gratitude verbally and say “thank you” to specific people for all that they have put into you. You will see that something will expand within you, and a kind warm feeling will settle in your soul and in the hearts of your comrades.
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Look for pros in people, not cons. Everyone has flaws, including you. But you do not want to not be loved just because you are, say, non-punctual. After all, this is not a reason, agree. Because you are kind and cook well, which means you have something to love for. From the same point of view, look at the rest of the people, and notice how your criticism fades.
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Be tolerant and sympathetic to the opinions of other people. Each person has his own worldview, his own concepts and arguments for them, his own system of values and his own unique dreams. Do not judge everyone by yourself, but rather treat a person unlike you, because each such meeting is an occasion to change something in yourself, expand and supplement, and also learn something new and amazing.
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Do not conflict. Everyone can start shouting, proving something, but as a rule there is little sense from this. And you think that at this very time your life is moving forward, and now you can create something good and bright instead of a quarrel. You will see, your ardor will die out, and you will want to create, not destroy.
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Try to do small good deeds daily. For example, help an old woman cross the road, talk with mom and tell me how you love her, give a friend a small but pleasant souvenir. The more heat you give the world, the more it comes back to you. Remember this and do not skimp.
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Start with yourself and become kinder to yourself. Everything in this world is interconnected, and how you treat yourself, how kind and respectful your personality is, it is projected onto the people around you and the whole world as a whole. Remember, peace and harmony are built around that person who has peace and harmony within.