You can be absolutely lonely, even if you are in a crowd of people or surrounded by relatives and friends. But loneliness by different people can be perceived differently. It limits some, drives them into sadness, causes discomfort, while others it stops at the frantic pace of a big city and allows you to realize yourself as a whole person, to remember your present, about your goals, dreams and desires.
Instruction manual
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Many great people: writers, artists, scientists - valued solitude, as the most important resource of their creative process and development. Acceptance of one’s loneliness forces a person to cease to be passive, makes one become decisive, takes responsibility for one’s life, the freedom of creativity comes. Often loneliness arises in order for you to have a desire for development and for changing yourself for the better.
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In the process of loneliness, there is an understanding of their dependence, especially subordination from relatives, friends. It is important to learn to communicate with yourself, to hear and listen to your inner voice. Inability and unwillingness to listen to yourself, boredom from communicating with yourself, often indicates a loss of personality. And if I am bored with myself, and for myself I am an undesirable interlocutor, will it be interesting to others with me?
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Anyone who learns to feel loneliness as a gift of fate and friends and partner will choose not because he alone is bored, lonely and bad, but because he really loves his chosen one so that he wants to let him into his inner world. After all, how often, choosing a mate, just not to be alone, we are mistaken. And having learned to be alone with our thoughts and feelings, we are prepared to be completely with someone. And then the delight of intimacy, and not the fear of loneliness, keeps us close.
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It is important to feel loneliness not as punishment, but as personal freedom and sincerely enjoys its independence. Live life to the fullest, enjoy every moment, see new opportunities in front of you, strive to know yourself and the world around you.