In order to meet someone, you do not need to have special talent. But some people, when they get acquainted with the opposite sex, are shy and feel a barrier, which is very difficult to overcome. This interferes with an active life. For life to be full and interesting, you need to overcome your shyness in dating.
Instruction manual
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Analyze your behavior. In no case do not spare yourself. You need to understand that the time has come to change the strategy.
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Spend more time communicating with loved ones and people you know of the opposite sex. For this, colleagues, classmates are suitable. Discuss various issues with them; there shouldn’t be forbidden topics. Talk to them about your failures in dating. This will be a good training, since you will get used to communicating with people of the opposite sex, begin to understand their psychology.
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Proceed gradually with less familiar people. Be prepared for the fact that the first minutes of acquaintance are always difficult. There may be pauses in the conversation, awkwardness. But there is nothing to worry about. Not only you, but also your interlocutor, feel some inconvenience. You still know each other too little.
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Try to be independent. If you are denied an acquaintance, do not immediately get upset and panic. Politely apologize and step back without showing your frustration. Accept the denial with dignity. Perhaps your interlocutor is in a bad mood today. And it’s not at all about you.
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Arrange yourself "dating lessons." Set yourself the task, to meet or just talk during the day with several strangers of the opposite sex. For tomorrow, set yourself the task of meeting a very handsome man of the opposite sex. And the day after tomorrow - to meet those who are in the company. At first, completing your tasks will be very difficult. But imagine that this is all a game, or that you are a foreign agent on a mission. This will make your workouts more interesting. Fear of acquaintance will gradually pass.
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Ask friends and friends for help, ask them how to get to know each other better. Perhaps they will give you useful tips that will help you overcome shyness when meeting you.
note
Charge yourself with positive emotions. Understand that life is beautiful. And all failures are an invaluable life lesson and experience.
Useful advice
Be more talkative and open-minded. This will bring people to you. Your open attitude will resonate in the hearts of people, and they will also treat you kindly.