The work of the law of “no attraction”

You have been waiting for a call from him for a week. But there is no call. And you whisper like a spell: "Well, dear, well, please call." You never let your mobile phone out of your hands and check for the hundredth time: did you miss a call? Of course, you could call him yourself (horror, how I want to do it!), But you’ve learned your mother’s lessons well that women should be proud and not call the first men.

In these days of deaf male silence, your mood ranges from angry: “I don’t want to know him anymore!” To frightened: “What if something happened to him ?!” You are either angry or worried about him. It seems to you that he, as if suffering from a severe form of amnesia, has already completely forgotten you and got a new girlfriend. Then suddenly you imagine him - unhappy - under the wheels of a car, or falling out of a flying plane, or falling into the clutches of robbers, or having become ill with a disease unknown to modern science. As the saying goes, there would be a problem. And how it is more difficult to torture ourselves with this problem - we women will find a way! But psychologists assure: it is time to tell the experience a firm “stop”, it is time to stop analyzing the empty, in general, situation and hope that the man is about to remember you, is about to realize everything and call. May be. Someday.

It is possible that your paths will ever intersect. The earth is round. But today you have a more important task than to dream of a future meeting. You need to stop torturing yourself. Understand that even if a man at this moment solves problems on a global scale, a week is more than enough to pick up a phone and dial your number. Of course, if he wants to. Men are creatures that are determined to win, inclined to speed up the development of relations with a woman they like. And if you were interested in him, in any case of his life situations, after a day or two, he would definitely find time to call and see if everything was okay with you. But if he is silent for a whole week, then here is not only the third, here the second is not given. There is only one option - you did not hook it. The law of "no attraction" worked. Alas, come to terms with this fact.

That's where it all begins. Humble yourself

Easy to say! And how to do it? Indeed, nothing is placed in the head except for the dream man. And if it is placed, it does not linger for a long time. And you sort through the memories - here we walked,

here he told me

looked

wrote down the phone number.

Well, why doesn't he call! Stop! Get a hold of yourself. Believe me, soon you will see that with his disappearance your life has not become worse. Men come and go, making way for a new, more worthy place. And so that the process of taking yourself together is painless, remember a few useful rules.

Rule 1. In no case do not despair and do not pour tears (tears spoil the appearance).

Rule 2. Do not bother the man with mournful calls (such calls will give him a reason to happily think that he broke up with you).

Rule 3. Do not get hung up on this problem (there are people who are much worse off than you).

Rule 4. Be distracted and engage in self-improvement (for example, start learning Japanese).

Rule 5. Calm down and think that a new, good, worthy man will surely appear in your life.