The main institution for raising a child is the family. What the child acquires in the family during infancy and adolescence, he remembers, acquires, and applies throughout his subsequent life.
In the process of education, parents can put forward a number of requirements for their child, which is even a necessary condition for education. However, a child may be negatively affected if fulfillment of requirements is achieved by shouts, threats, and violence. In this case, the parents will not succeed, but only set the child against themselves, his behavior will also become aggressive towards adults. In any case, you should take into account the interests and opinion in a particular situation.
Acting in the direction of democratic education, one should also be careful and not go too far. Parents can take care of their children, protecting them from problems and taking care of everything. Thus, the process of forming a child’s personality is slowed down, the satisfaction of the needs of the child comes to the fore. Ultimately, the child will not be ready for adulthood, it will be difficult for him to solve problems on his own, since before that everything was decided for him by his parents. Adolescents who were raised this way in adolescence have the most disruptions.
1) respect for the opinion of the child;
2) equal treatment of the child in the family;
3) the availability of time in order to listen to the child, give him advice, help in solving the problem;
4) raising a child in a democratic way (not to exert violence on him, not to threaten him).
In any situation, you need to find the right approach to the child, to be fair and loving parents who are interested in raising a worthy personality.
