Life goals are among the main incentives that help to develop, build relationships, earn money, and do quality work. However, not everyone is able to clearly set a goal for themselves and move in this direction.
Instruction manual
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Think about your own life. Ask yourself: does everything suit you at the moment. It is possible that you are too accustomed to the established rhythm of life. Changes scare you, so you do not set new goals. Such a vicious circle will inevitably lead to depression and a feeling of inner emptiness.
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Try to dream in a relaxed atmosphere, being alone. Try on yourself various pictures related to life values, career, family, travel. Think over the prevailing images in the smallest details. Try to feel in which of the roles suggested by the imagination you feel most comfortable. To set a specific goal, you need to move in that direction.
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Try the exclusion method. Mentally drop all that without which you could live and feel happy. In this way you can determine your main life values and change priorities. It is possible that the daily race for beautiful things and the desire for accumulation will be secondary in comparison with harmony in the family and caring for children.
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Seek inspiration for setting your own goals in the external environment. Read the informative press, communicate with interesting people, try to be interested in various fields and directions. Your own vocation or a big goal in life may be prompted by the work or creativity of other people. Listen to yourself and try to choose what you like best. It is quite possible that you will find a path to self-knowledge and understand what exactly you need for inner harmony.
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Try to relax and change your environment. Lack of purpose is often associated with extreme fatigue and lack of energy. Go on vacation, walk more often. The surge of vitality can awaken your hidden desires and make you strive to conquer new heights.
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Always start with a small goal. For example, if you plan to enter a prestigious university, you should not go in cycles on this boundary. Break it down into several stages: for example, learning a foreign language, additional training in subjects. So you will more clearly represent your path and understand your goal.
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Be careful with goals that are imposed by other people. For example, if parents influence your choice of profession, and you feel a different calling in yourself.