The world around is full of dangers. Modern man encounters them at every step, many of them are already so familiar that they are not even recognized as dangers. What rules and principles should be followed to make life safer?
Instruction manual
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Safety of life consists of two main components - psychological safety and physical. In this case, the first strongly affects the second. Squeezed, notorious, all afraid man involuntarily attracts danger. Why? Because its energy can be felt by people around. In nature, predators well sense the “smell of fear” emanating from the victim. But there are predators among people, they easily calculate the potential victim by the waves of fear emanating from it.
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Therefore, the very first step in ensuring security is to get rid of the victim’s complex. Feel yourself a hunter, cultivate a sense of strength. If you can do this, the number of potential dangers will decrease dramatically - the people around you will subconsciously feel your strength and are afraid to contact you.
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Another factor of psychological safety is the ability to defend during communication. Many people are energy vampires - they want to talk to you, throw out their troubles, make you sympathize with them. Having spoken, such a person feels better. You, on the contrary, feel tired because you have lost some of your energy. Break off such conversations under any convenient pretext.
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The second common variant of energy vampirism is associated with the "untwisting" of a person into an emotional outburst. There are many concrete ways - to infringe on a person’s pride, his pride, to make him worry and worry. Often this happens in the family or just between loved ones. A person arranges scenes, rolls tantrums, not because there is some real reason for this, but as a result of energy hunger. He is not aware of his actions, but on a subconscious level he feels that he becomes better when he manages to upset, bring his "soul mate" to tears.
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Remember: while you are "led" to such tantrums, they will not stop. Conversely, stop responding emotionally to them and they will disappear. Do not encourage vampirism - on the contrary, help your loved one get rid of him, switch him to other sources of strength. It can be walks in the fresh air, reading spiritual literature, visiting a church and much more.
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Learning to say no is very important. Many people cannot refuse someone, even if they clearly do not like the request, or even cause harm. Kindness and sensitivity are good qualities, but the ability to say no when appropriate is also very important. Weak people "revolve" around the strong, fulfill their whims - this is one of the laws of society. Try to say “no” clearly at least once, and in practice you will feel how your energy level will increase sharply. And all because you stop going on about the other person.
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Physical security also plays an important role. There is no need to be afraid of everything, but preparedness for dangers must be constantly present. The problem of most people is that they consider some territories to be safe, while in reality this is just an illusion. You cross the road to a traffic light - is it safe? Yes, provided that one of the drivers does not go into the red light. Crossing the street, always look around - this is the state of readiness.
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You can read about any specific ways to increase security in the relevant literature. You will be advised to strengthen the front doors and not ride in an elevator with strangers, beware of icicles, wear self-defense equipment, etc. etc. But all this is secondary. The basis of your safety is in your mind. Having got rid of fears, learning not to follow other people 's abilities, being able to anticipate possible troubles, you can live happily ever after.