When the courtship period has passed, and weekdays begin, the relationship of lovers sometimes lose their romantic component. Women are especially lacking in warmth and affection; it seems to them that the man has lost interest in them. How to get maximum care and attention from the stronger sex?
Instruction manual
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Some cooling in steam is a fairly frequent and not at all catastrophic phenomenon. This period you just need to survive. Therefore, do not rush to seek solace in the arms of other men. Try to revive the relationship with your loved one.
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Mentally articulate your claims. What exactly are you missing? Sometimes women use the word “care” as exceptionally high material support, sometimes as a desire to see a man nearby constantly, and not just on weekends.
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Having understood what exactly you are missing, think about why a man refuses you this. It is important to find out if he has real reasons for estrangement, or if he is simply tired of relationships. For example, the high workload at work completely excuses the fact that he doesn’t even have time to kiss you at night, because he comes home in the morning.
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Do not expect that, in your sad appearance, the man will guess how desperately you want him to just hug you. Act! Show him how you care. Have a romantic evening. The atmosphere of flirting is always increased attention to the lady, he will not be able to remain indifferent.
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Show that you need it. Do not be afraid to be weak, despite the fact that today the image of a strong and independent woman literally does not leave the covers of glossy magazines. Admit that you are tired of washing dishes in the evenings, could he take it upon himself? Such requests work far better than reproaches and insults.
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Talk frankly. Ask what he lacks in your relationship. Perhaps his detachment is a reaction to your behavior, and you do not even know about it. Let him say everything he thinks. Even if his words hurt you, try not to quarrel, sort things out calmly.
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Be beautiful and desirable! Yes, yes, you are the most beautiful woman in the world, but it is worth reminding your man more often about this. Is he used to seeing you in jeans and sweaters? Surprise him with a new look, complement your wardrobe with high-heeled shoes and a stunning dress. Conquer it every day, and then its constant attention is provided to you.