In the popular proverb "eyes are the mirror of the soul, " a deep meaning is laid. From the eyes you can learn a lot about a person. The movement of the eyelids, eyeballs, eyebrows, tilt of the head speak more about the interlocutor and his emotions than words.
Instruction manual
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Knowing some secrets, one can determine from the eyes whether a person is sincere with you or not. It has long been noticed: if a person experiences a feeling of guilt, then he lowers them down (sometimes down and to the side). To find out exactly what your interlocutor is experiencing, it is enough to compare this eye movement with the context of the conversation.
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Psychologists believe that "fixed eyes" can be a sign of lies. If you asked your interlocutor to remember something, and he, without looking away, continues to look directly into your eyes or at you, then this is one of the signs of a person’s insincerity. If at the same time, without hesitation, he answers the question asked - there are suspicions of his hypocrisy.
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This symptom mainly concerns answers to unexpected questions or a request to recall old events. If a person talks about what happened to him ten to fifteen minutes ago, or reports important information for him (his phone number, address of residence), then the sign "fixed eyes" does not work here.
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Another sign of a possible lie is "quick eye contact." If your interlocutor looks at you during a story or an answer to a question and suddenly quickly looks away and then looks back at you just as quickly, it is likely that he is trying to hide something.
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When during the conversation the interlocutor looked directly and openly at you and when touching on a particular topic, he began to avoid looking - this too can speak of lies and an attempt to hide something. But we must not forget that some insecure people often feel awkward during a conversation and avoid looking, which does not mean their insincerity. It is also quite possible that your interlocutor simply does not like the topic touched.
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Pay attention to the pupils of the interlocutor. A person cannot control his pupils. If, when answering a question, you notice that the interlocutor’s pupils have narrowed or dilated, this should lead to a suspicion that you are not completely sincere.
note
You should not make hasty conclusions at the sight of one of the signs. Be sure to compare the context of the conversation and the situation with the listed symptoms. If you focus only on them, you can make a mistake and blame the honest man for lying.
Useful advice
If a person looks away down and to the right - this is one of the signs of a lie, but if he looks away down and to the left - he can simply choose the right words.
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