Often we need to convince people that they have committed any specific actions, in other words, we need to manage them. To do this, of course, it is enough to have a high social status or position, but if you are alone with a person equal to you, you need to convince him. Learning to control people is possible only if you can convince a person equal to you.
Instruction manual
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Listen to the person you need to convince of something. Highlight his manner of speaking and speaking. His vocabulary, which he passes on to you, is an invaluable weapon against himself, and a randomly dropped word can become a very powerful argument both in argument and in conviction.
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Make adjustments - take a pose that is mirrored or similar to the pose of the interlocutor, and synchronize breathing, or gestures with his breathing and gestures. This will help you subconsciously cause him to resist your arguments, because at the subconscious level you will copy it.
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Identify its weaknesses and parasitic words, due to which you can reveal his insecurity in certain words. Use refinements to confuse your opponent, while not directly confronting you personally. It will be a plus if your conversation takes place in public - the pressure of other people on your interlocutor will help you develop the situation in a direction that is convenient for you.
Useful advice
Do not use a direct statement - push a person to realize the need for certain actions, because they are priority for him.