Our life is a very complicated thing. And so you need to be able to discover it for yourself, otherwise you just disappear. But how can a shy person open it? He is shy of everything, he is always scared, awkward. As practice shows, such people do not add up.
Of course, it would be much worse if people were not embarrassed at all. But everything should be in moderation. It is believed that this feature is laid in childhood. But not necessarily pledged at an early age remains with the person forever. Under the influence of the environment, various circumstances, the child may not be shy.
But how can an adult cease to be shy?
To answer this question, you need to find a reason. Why are adults shy? And best of all they will be able to explain to us, those who are shy.
Most often they say: “I won’t succeed”, “I can’t”, “I won’t manage”, “I don’t know”, “I don’t know how”. Shy people are not self-confident, fears seize them, they pre-program themselves to fail. For some reason they consider themselves worse than others and therefore are afraid of the opinions of others.
But, if you look, the abilities of shy people are much higher than their surroundings. It turns out interesting, some have very weak abilities, but they achieve great success in life, while others are very capable, but they have not achieved anything.