For many young people, the real problem is the ability to maintain a conversation with a girl. As you know, women love with their ears, so you should not count on the ability to make the right impression only with your appearance. To provoke a positive response, you must be able to interest the girl in conversation. There are a number of simple but effective techniques for this.
Instruction manual
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The first thing that needs to be firmly remembered: girls are also people, not mysterious aliens, and although their interests may differ from traditional male ones, it’s quite easy to find understanding with them. Like guys, girls want a sincere, friendly attitude towards themselves. They like it when they pay attention and compliment. And, like guys, girls appreciate a good sense of humor and jokes.
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If you liked a girl and you don’t know how to start a conversation with her, ignore this invitation to meet you.
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Often young people say that they simply don’t know what to talk with girls about in order to arouse their interest. Let's open one important secret: the topic of conversation does not matter much, unless you are solving business issues. At the beginning of the acquaintance, you can comment on any surrounding event or phenomenon, make a little joke about this, you can ask the opinion of the girl or herself. Do not forget only that you should not joke about the interlocutor herself, until you know her well enough. Even a joke innocent in your opinion can seem offensive and cause a negative reaction.
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In order to make a positive impression on women, it is worth spending a little time and learning the art of complimenting. It is important to remember that a compliment is not outright flattery, but a way to tell a person something pleasant, to please him. Your compliments should be light and look natural. No need to artificially invent some outstanding qualities, which the interlocutor obviously does not have. Also, one should not make the compliment too explicit, "cloying." To say something like: “Your lips are so mouth-watering, just like sweet cherries” to the girl she first met is clearly not the best option. Such a compliment may be perceived as offensive or stupid. It is much more effective to demonstrate that you are happy about this meeting and you are pleased to communicate with such an interesting and charming person as this young lady.
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In order to guarantee the interest of a girl, one must remember an important psychological technique: it is always more useful to talk about the person you are talking to than about yourself. Often, guys, trying to make a positive impression, make a serious mistake - they begin to talk about themselves, demonstrating their achievements and outstanding qualities. And very often they achieve the exact opposite effect - the girls begin to consider them narcissistic bouncers. To start a casual conversation, take an interest in what your interlocutor does, where she studies, what she likes. And most importantly, do not forget to carefully listen to the answers, then the girl herself will quietly tell you what she needs to talk about, what makes her happy, and how she can be carried away.
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