Which of us did not want to be able to read the thoughts of the other in order to reveal his secrets, plans, to foresee his behavior. Despite the fact that there is no absolutely reliable method that will guarantee the result of reading other people's thoughts with 100% accuracy, there are several effective signs that will help you guess what the other person is thinking about.
Instruction manual
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Language of the body. Read your body language. The movements of the arms, legs, head can clearly indicate what the interlocutor is thinking about. For example, during negotiations, if a person’s legs are directed to the door, then he most likely wants to leave the room as soon as possible. Or another example: if a person is standing in front of you with hands folded on his chest, this means that he is less susceptible to your suggestions. The gesture of covering the face with a hand takes on the same meaning.
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Eye movements. Eyes can easily penetrate the thoughts of man. Usually, when a person tries to come up with something on the go, he looks up to the left. The same eye movements are characteristic of a person who is in deep thought lying on the couch. If the interlocutor is trying to remember the image, he will also roll his eyes up, but to the right. Although these eye movements are a fairly effective way to read a person’s thoughts, do not treat him as an absolute instruction.
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Watch your voice. The most easily readable key to the thoughts of others. This key is easy to pick up if you know the person well enough. The slightest change in tone and intonation gives you an idea of what the interlocutor has in mind. If a person is completely unfamiliar to you, rely on your intuition when listening to him. Around there may be many people who have studied a stranger better than you, then you get the opportunity to judge a person by the reaction of other people. For example, others chuckle at his statements, then shake his mustache: his words can turn out to be only partially true.
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Combine and constantly practice all of the above methods. Over time, become an expert in reading other people's thoughts. You will have to make a lot of efforts at the initial stage, but with constant practice, these skills will improve and allow you to easily learn the secrets of other people!