Sometimes a person hears from his relatives and friends a mysterious and not entirely clear advice: "Always remain yourself." But has anyone ever wondered what these mysterious words mean?
Instruction manual
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Love yourself - first of all, your flaws. There are no perfect people. Your body may not be perfect, you have bad habits, but you are you. Learn to value yourself, love and respect. If you do not do it yourself, then what can you say about the people around you. Each person is individual, he is a creation, a unique work of nature.
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Do not speak formal language. Do not try to adopt someone else's manner of conversation. Express yourself in everyday life simply - without ornate words that are not close to you.
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Pay attention to your behavior in society. Sometimes life develops in such a way that a person behaves in a particular situation unusual for himself - some places, circumstances and people strain him, he closes or annoys. Release the situation. Relaxation means a return to basics, to inner peace of mind.
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Do not hurry. Being constantly in motion, a person can forget who he really is. To hurry means not to open completely. When talking to people, make stops. In a hurry somewhere, slow down. There is only one rule: the more you hurry, the further you run away from the real self.
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Speak more often in public. Not only will you reveal your inner potential and accept yourself as you are, in addition to this, you will teach other people to accept you as the present. If you don’t have the opportunity to publicize, then start a blog on the Internet, and the more frankly, the better for you. The first recordings will be difficult - it is difficult to expose the soul. No one wants to look weak and defenseless in the eyes of others. Seeing the first caustic comments under your posts, you will want to quit this lesson, but the difficulties only harden. So you will begin to perceive third-party criticism and open up internally, not only and so much for others, but how much for yourself.