Success, self-confidence are necessary for each of us today. How to achieve success, how to adapt to living conditions that change every day, is it possible to somehow program luck?
Instruction manual
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At first glance, the external attributes of success are universally recognized: good work, an apartment, an expensive car, a summer residence, a normal family, children and, of course, health. If we add to this the opportunity to go on holiday abroad, we will get a portrait of a man on the crest of success. Some people achieve all this, but there is no feeling of success or satisfaction. And there are people who, despite the lack of money and various everyday problems, stubbornly go their own way and often find themselves winning because they remain themselves. The ability to be in harmony with yourself and the world around you - this is what determines true life success.
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One of the prerequisites for success is the expectation of change and moral readiness for it. People who want to succeed, need to learn how to relate to failures, analyzing them and not dramatizing, to learn from their wrong actions. If you cannot make a cold-blooded analysis, if emotions overwhelm you, then you just need to think about how you would perceive what happened after a year or a few months. Probably in a week only one memory of the past failure will cause you only a smile.
You should often recall your achievements and do not need to focus on failures.
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Those who want to succeed, must choose the right circle of communication. We need to communicate with people energetic, active, because each of us is subject to the influence of our environment. If losers prevail in your social circle, then they will pull you along as well, you yourself will not even notice it. Avoid such a circle of people, as well as people who will always assent to you, approve all decisions you have made.
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It is very important to be able to see yourself through the eyes of others to understand what impression you make on others.
If you have a rich imagination, then use it to build self-confidence by imagining yourself as a successful person who has gained the respect of others. Try to adopt gestures, facial expressions, gait of your acquaintance.
To succeed means. to perceive others and oneself as they are, to experience satisfaction from the procession along the path of the realization of their abilities.
Useful advice
Those who are interested in this topic are advised to read the books of Carnegie and some other American authors, such as Frank Battager, “Yesterday is a loser, a successful businessman today”, Erich Fromm “To be or have?”, Janet Rainwater “It is in your power”.