Very often people complain about life and failure. When the gray streak dragged on and nothing happens when you already want to give up
What if luck is turned away? Let's understand this behavior and try to find a formula for success for everyone!
Purpose in life
A person who is not happy with his life cannot fully enjoy it and be happy no matter how successful he is. Why it happens? If you feel that you are missing something, and you are ready to change yourself for the better - act! Imagine how you want to see yourself in the future, what do you lack for complete happiness? Set a goal and go towards it. A goal can be global and almost impossible to achieve, or simple and attainable in a short time. It all depends on your needs, patience and willpower. It is very important to understand for yourself what desires you fulfill, your own or imposed by society, stereotypes or the opinions of people around you. Be honest with yourself!
End justifies the means? This question can be answered unequivocally - NO. The goal does not justify the means, it is only the final step on your path to your dream. You can come to one goal in different ways, in which case you will receive different satisfaction from the result. Do not believe those who say that one goal can be achieved only in one way and in no other way - such people are mistaken, they are limited in their thinking and may simply not notice other options. Do not limit yourself.
What is stopping you?
Fear, lack of motivation, desire or strength. Old failures, grievances, disappointments? All this has a place to be, because we are all human beings and no one is safe from mistakes, our own and others.
.But is it worth putting an end to a loser? Let's figure it out. Everyone knows what luck or luck is, because everyone at least once experienced it on themselves. I don’t argue, luck is wonderful, it's great, it's cool in the end! When everything turns out by itself, easily and naturally without extra effort. How to make sure that luck always accompanies you? First you need to understand who is chasing whom - are you luck, or is it you? An interesting question, right? Luck is certainly important in all matters and in a person’s life, but you should not rely only on luck, your deeds and actions are no less important. Good luck is a gift of fate, and it must be earned!
Learn to achieve the goal in several stages, do not expect everything to work out the first time. Take failure not as an end result, but as a stage in life on the way to your goal. Ask yourself, what is more important for you, a past mistake or that invaluable experience that you have gained and can use it in the future? Man always learns, learn and you.
Willpower
For any business, you need strength. The forces are spiritual, physical, moral, mental, intellectual. Creative work requires inspiration. For the intellectual - reason, knowledge, logic, thinking, etc. Where can you get all this wealth if you are morally or emotionally devastated? A person is capable of self-healing after any failure of stress or other adverse factors. Sometimes recovery is slow, sometimes fast. But what if the forces left you for a long time?
There are many situations in life that adversely affect us. There are also many situations that, on the contrary, have a favorable and positive effect on a person, his emotional and physical health. The only question is what you choose for yourself!
If you do not have the strength, ask yourself, what are you spending it on? We often attach importance to things that are not worth our attention. Resentment, fear, anger, disappointment, regret, envy, longing, despondency, despair - all these emotions take away our precious energy and give nothing in return! All this adversely affects our condition. Think about whether you need such a bargaining chip?