Many couples get divorced after several years of marriage. But after all, being at the altar, one does not think at all that a person nearby will be unpleasant after a while, that any trifle associated with it will begin to annoy.
Psychologists identified 6 main causes of divorce. Oddly enough, the first reason is the unreadiness of young couples for marriage. If the marriage takes place before cohabitation, it will be difficult to find a compromise for the couple. And after quarrels there will be a divorce.
The second reason is the harmful habits of one of the spouses. They are heard by everyone: alcohol, smoking, gambling addiction or drugs. If the chosen one does not want to change for the better and abandon his habit, then it will come to a divorce.
The third reason is infidelity, or treason. Sometimes both of the spouses are to blame for the infidelity, but, nevertheless, it is very difficult to forgive her. Many do not succeed, and the couple eventually gets divorced.
The fourth reason is the unstable financial situation in the family. The main reason is the lack of housing, the inability to buy your own apartment, since living with parents is also a test.
The fifth reason is different outlooks on life. For example, the spouse prefers hard rock, and the spouse listens exclusively to classical music. Most likely, this couple is from different social strata. Amid falling in love, the differences are not noticeable, but when it passes, everything falls into place.
The sixth reason is the most delicate. This is either dissatisfaction in bed or problems with reproductive function. Instead of solving such problems together, couples most often break up. Perhaps there will be more minuses in the chosen one than they can endure, forgive and understand, but the opposite situation is also possible. When, after careful weighing, the chosen one was seen in the best light. Loving people can always solve all problems and save the marriage. But there are times when love leaves with the unwillingness of the second half to change something in themselves, to do everything to strengthen relations. When no one wants to listen to anyone, to understand, it is worth trying to solve these problems. If it does not work, then a divorce is inevitable. But trying is not torture.
Most importantly, do not forget the good moments that were in the relationship behind the quarrels. Happiness often goes along with misfortune.