Eternal love is the desire of many people, especially those who plan to start a family. After all, they understand that strong relationships last for years. Unfortunately, some people cannot keep this feeling. But there are couples who manage to live together all their lives and stay happy. How to achieve that to love always?
Instruction manual
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Do not be alarmed if feelings after a candy-bouquet period have cooled down and become a little mundane. The feeling of inspiration and admiration cannot be experienced forever. Passion will subside, but love will remain, it will simply change somewhat - it will be strong and calm. Respect, the desire to care for each other, the desire to have children will replace the enthusiasm of lovers.
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Avoid conflicts. Even the happiest couples sometimes quarrel. It is not necessary to think that every problem is certainly a divorce. On the contrary, finding compromises together, you strengthen the relationship. It takes time to get used to the character of a loved one. Perhaps, over the years, you will learn to achieve mutual understanding without words and, all the more, shouts. Do not lock yourself. Often mutual reproaches and resentments lead to silence - this is a mistake that can lead to separation. Whatever the situation, it is better to resolve it by discussing peacefully.
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Try not to focus on the shortcomings of the second half. Understand that there are no perfect people. Before you find fault with trifles, look at yourself from the side - you are not an angel either. Better find a reason to praise. Pleasant words make you strive for good deeds.
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Find yourself a hobby. Sometimes spending time together can cause irritation. Not because feelings have passed, but because even from loved ones you sometimes need to rest. Release your beloved (beloved) briefly to friends or relatives. And read the book yourself, cook something, go shopping, in general, have a good time. It is possible that you even manage to get bored - the more pleasant the meeting will be.
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Organize, at least occasionally, romantic dates. Visit a movie, cafe or restaurant, take a walk holding hands, arrange a candlelit dinner. Maybe some place will become memorable, and you will constantly return there. This will add variety to everyday life and refresh the senses. Most importantly, remember that love has every chance of becoming eternal, if you value it mutually. It will not be possible to save it alone.