Quarrels arise at all. Where there is no showdown, there is no drive. But if you offended your girlfriend in the course of a quarrel, then you must apologize to her, otherwise she might think that you are indifferent to her.
Instruction manual
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Before asking for forgiveness, try to understand what exactly offended her. If you managed to get her into the conversation, then this is already half the success. In no case do not press on her, do not use rude words. Find out what you have done. Worse, if a girl does not want to explain anything and generally speak with you.
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If the girl did not say a word, and each of your remarks causes a tantrum, then for now leave the attempts - talking is useless. Wait until the wave of emotions subsides.
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When you find out the reason, then you can think about how to ask for forgiveness. Causes of resentment may be adequate and inadequate. When analyzing, keep in mind that you and she can look at the same things differently. Do not judge from your bell tower.
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When you understand what you have done, go ask for forgiveness. Whatever the reason, you need to behave firmly, without lisp and without becoming limp, as you can give the girl a reason to take advantage of your temporary weakness.
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If you have done something really serious, first talk to her and explain why you did just that. For the quarrel to be resolved, it is necessary that each of you understand the position of the other. So you can quickly find a compromise.
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If you are still wrong, here are some ways to make amends:
“Write under her windows that you love her.” Let others say that this is trite, but she will be pleased, because for her no one has done this yet.
- Do what you have never done before. It can be a dinner cooked by yourself or a massage from which your girlfriend will melt.
- Give flowers. This is a universal way to apologize. Even if the girl frowns, you know - she is pleased.
“Present yourself to her for the whole day or evening.” This will work especially well if she knows what it cost you to refuse to go to the match of your favorite team.