For various reasons, it may turn out that a person will have to improve his personal life after 40 years. By this time, there may be several unsuccessful novels and marriages behind him, which almost always negatively affects subsequent relationships.
Instruction manual
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Get rid of psychological patterns and negative memories of the past. Do you think your rich life experience works for you? Not in this case. Unjustified hopes, guilt, regrets about missed opportunities - all this negativity nurtures your sense of inferiority and closes your path to happiness. You can establish personal life only if you get rid of the imprints of the past and open up for new relationships. And for this, first of all, you should get rid of everything that causes negative memories - things, photos, gifts, etc.
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Critically evaluate your appearance. In the market of grooms and brides, those who look after themselves have better chances of maintaining good physical shape. Visit a hairdresser, update your wardrobe - thanks to this you will feel younger and more confident.
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Try to match the ideas of the ideal life partner for members of the opposite sex. A man needs to show himself as an initiative, successful, reliable and serious person. Woman - to be attractive, well-groomed, elegant, caring, gentle.
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Make an effort to meet your loved one. Passive waiting may result in the desired person never appearing in your way. Start each week to go somewhere: to the theater, cinema, museums, make tourist trips and go on excursions.
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Sign up for a dating club for those over 40, if there is one in your city. Mature people often hesitate to get acquainted, because they don’t know whether a person is alone or not. Visits to such a club will tell others that you are in search of a loved one. At club parties, be friendly and active, communicate and be interested in other people.
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Post your profile on a dating site, best of all - on intended for people of mature age. Carefully approach the selection of photographs, as it will be primarily those who will come to your page who will see it. Do not put a photo of a decade ago, it is better to take a good photo from a professional. Properly describe your interests and requirements for the person you want to see next to. Try to make your page stand out from many others. At the first dates, be careful - on the Internet you can find various swindlers.
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After meeting an interesting person, do not rush to move on to close relationships. Communicate, be friends, look at the person. So you can avoid unnecessary disappointments.