Getting used to a new job is sometimes not as simple as it seems at first glance. Someone immediately joins the team and lives with him on the same wavelength, while someone has to spend a lot of time and effort to get along with colleagues. Most often, difficulties arise in women in a purely female team. To prevent problems, you need to follow simple instructions.
Instruction manual
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Whatever situation you are in, do not let yourself be drawn into a scandal. Be always and with all friendly and open, but do not take sides. If you do not get involved in intrigue, they will affect you less. At work, try to work, take time to work and talk, and don’t let yourself be trapped in friendly relations by supporting one of the warring parties.
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At your workplace, forget about frankness. Do not dedicate the work team to your everyday problems and do not talk about the personal. The topic is not important, but try not to mention health, family and relationships in it, religion and your political views. Try to circumvent personal topics.
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Try to cope with your work yourself. Do not often take sick leave for yourself or your child if you have one. Your work, if you cannot cope with it, falls on the shoulders of your colleagues. The more such work, the more discontent in your direction. In extreme cases, discuss with your superiors that when you are ill, you can work remotely from home.
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Try not to show your superiority. It is one thing when you show your bosses how well you are doing your job, and it is quite another if you show your clear superiority to colleagues. This applies not only to working moments. You should not show that you are more successful in marriage or better off financially. Often single mothers work in women's groups or have not had time to get married and divorced, do not create an inferiority complex among your colleagues, showing that you are better.
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Be friendly to all colleagues. Ask how they spent the weekend or went to the movies. Interest should be genuine, falsehood is always felt. Find a topic that you can easily talk to and communicate in a friendly manner. Empathize with colleagues and support them, if necessary.
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Be responsible and prudent. Try to keep your word and fulfill all the responsibilities assigned to you, both work and personal. If you give someone a promise at work, try to keep it.
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Keep your emotions in check. No one likes violent manifestations of emotions, especially negative ones. Try to restrain yourself in the team. Do not throw tantrums and panic. If you are brought and called into an unpleasant conversation, try to immediately interrupt such a person and no longer be allowed. Show right away that you do not like this attitude, and you do not accept it. Well, if in the team negative emotions are too often raging and the authorities ignore such situations, take pity on yourself and look for a more comfortable place.