Some people have the ability to entrain almost any person. They are constantly in the spotlight, while their status is far from paramount. This is charisma, it is like magnetism and attracts others. It is quite difficult to become a charismatic person, but everyone can do it.
Self-confidence
Self-confidence is an integral attribute of a charismatic man. Surrounding people see that the man does not doubt himself and his actions and are drawn to him. Be positive, start a conversation with those that are interesting to others, interest them in your conversation. The big mistake is to conduct conversations reproaching or condemning someone. Such conversations initially create a negative atmosphere and repel interlocutors.
Do not doubt your words, speak with confidence. Keep a calm tone and pace of conversation, focus on important words, increasing the rhythm or volume of your voice. Speak clearly and clearly. To test your confidence, record your speech on the recorder and listen to it.
Language of the body
A person’s confidence and comfort are well read in his body language. Wrong movements always betray an insecure, shy and indecisive person. It is important to behave in such a way that others do not have doubts about your confidence in your words and actions. When entering an unfamiliar room or getting surrounded by strangers to you, walk with a firm gait and keep your posture, this is the first thing that betrays an insecure person. Greeting someone, greet him with a strong handshake, smile and look straight into your eyes. When talking, stand or sit face to face with the person you are talking to, keep your hands away from your face and do not cross them on your chest.
Train your body language while standing in front of a mirror. Pretend that you are talking to someone and watch your actions.
Raise self-esteem of interlocutors
A charismatic man is distinguished by the ability to speak with any person on any topic. He knows how to listen, to give confidence to those with whom he speaks, to make him feel like the center of the universe. Do not exalt yourself before the interlocutor, do not interrupt him. At the same time, do not let him feel superior to himself, respect him, but be equal to him.
Sincerely take an interest in the life and affairs of the interlocutor, but do not be intrusive. Make him feel your interest in the conversation. Always remember the names of your interlocutors. By not forgetting the person’s name, you will increase his own significance the next time you meet him.
Haraisma does not mean that other people just enjoy talking to you. Do not think about what others think of you, be self-sufficient and radiate confidence.