We all want to be able to talk with anyone and about anything. Often we find ourselves in a situation where we see a person who attracts us - either in appearance or in behavior, but we do not dare to speak with him, because we lack resolve and we doubt our own abilities. Or, for example, we need to make the right acquaintance, but we do not know where to start - what to do in such cases? The problem lies within ourselves, and to solve it, we need to develop some properties in ourselves, including self-confidence.
Instruction manual
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Develop self-confidence. Find the area of action that you get best that you like to do the most - and do it as often as possible. Find like-minded people - this will simplify the process. Immerse yourself in the significance of yourself and your actions in this area, and this feeling will spread to everything that you do.
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Work on your voice. If you don’t have someone you can talk with for hours, read aloud. Find the time during which you can read aloud as loudly as possible so that no one bothers you.
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Develop a confident manner of holding. A straight back and neck, a clear step, a direct look are attributes of a self-confident person. If you are embarrassed and this manner is not familiar to you and does not correspond to your sense of self, keep it on purpose and you will see how your condition changes.
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Develop a confident manner of holding. A straight back and neck, a clear step, a direct look are attributes of a self-confident person. If you are embarrassed and this manner is not familiar to you and does not correspond to your sense of self, keep it on purpose and you will see how your condition changes.
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In a conversation, listen to the interlocutor, and listen carefully. Remember that you are not enemies, and any argument is just a waste of time. Do not interrupt the interlocutor and always let him finish, often in order to maintain a conversation it is enough to ask the right questions on the topics that the interlocutor wants to talk about.
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In no case do not doubt the fidelity of your words when you start a conversation! Charisma and an active, energetic manner of speaking are the best recipe for starting a conversation!
Useful advice
Remember the rule of three seconds - as soon as you understand what you want or what you need to talk to this or that person - act without hesitation!