When the situation gets out of control, a series of troubles occurs, and strangers begin to influence life - it's time to stop and think. It is necessary to decide how you can save the situation and begin to independently manage your life.
Situation control
If a person assumes responsibility for all events in his life and seeks to control the course of events, he can be considered the master of his own destiny. He does not intend to waste time regretting his mistakes, but simply draws conclusions for himself for the future and continues to look for good moments in the present. He appreciates himself and is confident in his abilities. Such a person does not care about the lives of others: he does not crawl with advice and criticism, but takes care of controlling the situation in his own destiny. He does not dramatize the problems in those cases when others cause him troubles. The master of his fate knows how to forgive other people's mistakes, but in the future he warns of possible actions or completely excludes an unreliable person from his circle of friends.
Your goals
The master of fate is a true strategist who clearly presents his goals and the necessary means to achieve them. His plans are always a priority for him, and he will not spend personal time on other people's tasks until his own are completed. Such a person is by nature ambitious enough and does not want to be content with little. Therefore, the master of fate is quite energetic and enterprising. He does not console himself with the illusions that someone can come and do everything for him. For him, the principle of life is to get all the best and preferably immediately.
Realist and optimist
A person who seeks to control the events of his life must be realistic and adequately perceive every situation. Despite the ability to give an objective assessment of events, such a person is inclined to look with optimism at life, and in particular, at his future. The master of his fate is a convinced pragmatist, he seeks profit in any situation, while predicting possible desirable and undesirable consequences.