When communication takes place, a person usually watches the interlocutor: how he is standing or how he sits, how he looks, whether he is doing something at the time of the conversation. But to have a complete picture of who is in front of you, it is worth "observing" with your ears. The way a person talks, the manner of his communication can tell a lot about the interlocutor.
Experts believe that the way a person speaks to you can be of great importance in the process of interaction. The tone of the voice is able to reflect the internal state of the interlocutor, showing others what is really happening in him at this moment, not only in the head, but also in the soul.
Boring, monotonous voice
If you are talking with a monotonous, boring voice that is not colored by any emotions, you are most likely a very closed person in front of you who has many unresolved problems that weigh on him and that he constantly thinks about.
Such people are not inclined to close relationships, it is difficult for them to engage in dialogue with someone, especially with a stranger. It’s hard with such people, because it’s impossible to even guess what the person is really thinking about and what emotions he is experiencing.
Sweet and gentle voice
When you communicate with a woman who has a very high, softly sweet voice with an aspiration, then be careful. The so-called "children's" voice usually belongs to rather aggressive individuals who are hostile to others. If she ceases to like something from what you say, the timbre of her voice will begin to gradually change and decrease. As a result, you can no longer hear gentle words in your address, but aggressive shouts.
Tone Change
If the timbre of the voice of the interlocutor (men or women) begins to change from low to high - be vigilant. Such a change in tone may indicate that in front of you is an insidious liar.
Dangerous, hostile voice
When an interlocutor tries to talk a lot, aggressively, with attacks on both you and the whole world, you should not maintain a conversation with him. You can be drawn into the same aggression, which will make you start to answer in the same tone.
Sometimes a person does not even hear that hatred of the whole world sounds in his voice, and if you start to answer him in the same way, the interlocutor may be very surprised that you began to attack him.
An aggressive voice can also correspond to people who are not very confident, who want to attract special attention in this way.
If a person’s voice is loud by nature, and he additionally strengthens it and tries to speak louder and louder in order to shout around and show his discontent with the whole world, it is better not to answer him at all and, if possible, to end the conversation, and then retire.
Quiet voice
When a person speaks too quietly (if this is not connected with some kind of disease), most likely, he does not have a very good opinion of himself and lacks confidence. A person with a quiet voice does not have respect for himself, suffers from his own shyness, low self-esteem, but it can be quite aggressive. Such a passive aggression is used by a person in order to make an interlocutor listen carefully to him, constantly interrogate, and listen to every word. At the same time, tikhoni will never show their true feelings and emotions in a conversation.
Speech Too Fast
If a person speaks too quickly, most likely, he is in a state of overexcitation, trying to do a lot of things right away. Understanding such a person can be very difficult. For the interlocutor, a man chattering incessantly begins to pose a danger.
Usually people who speak very quickly, like people with quiet voices, can have problems with self-esteem and self-esteem, and with the help of quick speech they attract additional attention.