For guys who are shy, impressionable by nature, communication with the fair sex can be a real problem. Even if such a young man really likes a girl, he does not dare to approach her, meet, talk. How to get rid of this problem?
Instruction manual
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The young man is afraid that he looks funny, that the girl will not show interest in him, will not want to communicate. In the most difficult cases, such a guy is sure in advance that his attempts at courtship will not only be immediately rejected, but they will still laugh at him. To become bolder with girls, resort to self-hypnosis, try to increase your self-esteem. Repeat regularly to yourself that you have not only shortcomings, but also advantages, you have something to value for. And all the people around you (including girls) also have their drawbacks, but this does not prevent them from communicating with each other. Remember that ideal people do not exist, and there is no need to be afraid to make mistakes.
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Follow the rule "Wedge kick out wedge." To get rid of fear, communicating with girls, literally through force, force yourself to talk with them, first restricting yourself to two or three short phrases on some neutral topics. Your task is to make sure that there is nothing to worry about, that the girls do not refuse to talk with you, and all the more they don’t laugh. Once you are convinced of this, it will be easier for you to have longer conversations. And there, and before courting the girl you like - a stone's throw.
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Remember one more wise rule, "Similar reaches for the similar." Among the girls, there are also many shy and impressionable personalities who find it difficult to communicate with the opposite sex. You must have noticed such quiet people who stay on the sidelines in companies, almost without talking to guys. Try to chat with one of these girls by talking to her under some specious pretext. It is likely that she will instinctively feel a soul mate in you (representatives of the weaker sex usually have a well-developed intuition) and will want to get to know you better. This will only benefit you: you yourself will see that communicating with girls is very simple.
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It is now very easy to support virtual communication in various forums, on social networks. Chat with girls more often, this will also help you overcome embarrassment. Communicating in real life will be easier.
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If nothing helps and communication with the fair sex is still fraught with big problems, you will have to turn to a qualified psychologist for help. It is a specialist who will be able to find out what is the reason for your insecurity, shyness.