Treason is a violation of the oaths of fidelity, causing harm to a person, using his trust. It includes a violation of marital fidelity, the meanness made to a friend. You can attribute this concept only to the closest people whom you trusted infinitely and in whom you always believed. A stranger can never betray. Betrayal occurs, as a rule, at a completely unexpected moment, and therefore the pain from it is especially severe.
Instruction manual
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If this happened, it’s pointless to say that you don’t worry, because you will still worry and your pain will be severe. Try only so that this period does not drag on. If you become depressed and start to feel sorry for yourself, then this can drag on for a long time. Suffer a little, and then ask yourself a simple question that will not begin with the words “For what?” and “Why?”, but with the words “Why?”.
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If you think carefully, it turns out that betrayal is secondary. If it weren’t for the good that you gave to the traitor - love, friendship, trust, then this person could not betray you. Tell yourself that you simply did not recognize the traitor and are poorly versed in people. Say thanks to fate for teaching you a lesson and warning you for next time. Think that you have become stronger and wiser.
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Do not hope that the person who has betrayed you will have a conscience and he will sincerely repent, she simply does not exist and she cannot wake up. In any case, betrayal is committed consciously. If this person is not a complete idiot, then he perfectly understands that this is meanness, but, for sure, he finds an excuse for her. In the same way he will act later, looking for more and more new reasons for his meanness. Take this into account, and if it doesn’t work out at all, stop communicating with him, do not step on this rake anymore and stay away from him.
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But your wisdom lies in the fact that from now on you do not belong to potential traitors to all other people. Starting communication with a person, trust him unconditionally, but don’t make yourself loyal and flattering friends, don’t surround yourself with sneaks, gain immunity to enthusiasm and admiration for your person. Believing friends, partners or loved ones, you, of course, may once again encounter some kind of dirty trick, but this is better than living the rest of your life without trusting anyone.
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Your new acquaintance, about to deceive trust, will take openness for simplicity and commit betrayal or deception almost immediately, so you can survive it painlessly, as well as get rid of such a “friend” in time. Here is such a bitter, but useful lesson that can be learned from the fact that you were betrayed by a loved one.