In relationships, physical intimacy seems less important to women than to men. However, without full proximity, it is difficult to build harmonious family relationships. Many spouses after some time feel chilled and tired in the intimate sphere. How to support the desire of your partner?
Instruction manual
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To begin, consider the effect on reflexes. The atmosphere of intimacy itself should always be similar, with certain rituals, for example, eat tangerines before intimacy, then this smell will be associated with your beloved not only with the New Year. State that tangerines are your personal aphrodisiac. And love each other, for example, to Italian music. Comfortable familiar atmosphere will contribute to the desire of men.
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The situation should be similar, and try to diversify your behavior. Appearance periodically needs to be changed. Experiment with wigs and contact lenses, new underwear, toys for adults.
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However, the main thing in this matter is not reflexes. The most effective ways to maintain desire are related to influencing a man’s consciousness. And the subconscious. You need to deceive the subconscious and introduce yourself to different men, for which you have at your disposal endless variations of sexual fantasies, seasoned with a variety of new poses.
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For a woman with a fantasy, the source of ideas for intimacy can be not only the Kama Sutra, but also any film, or even a randomly overheard conversation. Read men's magazines, where you can find your favorite men's stories and change them so that you are interested.
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To create a romantic mood and excite your own sensuality, refer to high-quality fiction. For example, re-read “Angelica” - the love images described there are extremely beautiful and fascinating, and your mood will affect your beloved. If you like great subtlety in the description of passion, you can read "Countess Rudolstadt", in this book there is a lot of very beautifully described passion without vulgarity and naturalism. Your condition will be transmitted to a loved one.
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In order to be interesting for a man, he must always feel that not only he likes you. However, it is impossible to change in any case, not a single man will forgive this. Provoke flirting, but participate in it minimally so as not to upset your husband. Like, it's not my fault, they can’t resist, but I love only you. Well, if you will like your husband’s friends as a woman, recognizing people who are significant to your husband is a big deal.
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Do not forget about the importance of prestige. A man is not an animal controlled by reflexes at all. Therefore, your social significance is important for him. For a confident man, the professional success of his wife, such as the position of a teacher at a prestigious university, will be a big plus. And even a dissertation will not scare him. A prestigious wife will receive more attention and will be more desirable.
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Do not rely only on reflexes, create a mood, engage the consciousness and subconscious of a man - and you will enjoy a bright intimate life with your husband for a long time.