Not every person can say that he lives the life that he created for himself. This is the lot of strong people. But you can become such a person if you stop depending on the opinions of parents, friends, colleagues at work and begin to think in a new way.
You will need
- Introspection
- Work on self-esteem
- Honesty to oneself
Instruction manual
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First you need to work on your self-esteem. Be sure to love and value yourself, for a person who hates himself is not able to control his life. He is mired in his own negativity, and only does what he seeks to find negativity in everyone else. Believe in yourself, and then nothing will stop you from changing in the direction in which you wish.
2
Answer the following questions: who makes you feel better, who makes you feel worse, who controls your thoughts? You must answer yourself with all these questions. A person is simply obliged to strictly control himself and his thoughts. Otherwise, each thought can begin to control a person, which cannot be allowed.
3
Do not set yourself impossible goals. Nothing gives strength as the implementation of the plan. And impossible goals will remain unfulfilled, which will only upset you.
4
Consider each event of your life as necessary and important. Even if something is now separating you from your goal. You must not allow bad thoughts to dominate you. Since every bad thought pulls other negative thoughts and situations. Thoughts are material, because the spiritual and material world are inseparable.
5
As often as possible, imagine yourself as the person you want to become. This mental image must always be kept in mind. You will see that over time you and your life will begin to correspond to the image that exists in your imagination.