Any parent wants his child to study well, and the role of a teacher in this process is difficult to overestimate. However, teachers are also people with their own character and manner of communication. And it is better from the first days to make sure that the child and his teacher have found a common language, and good trusting relationships develop between them.
Instruction manual
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First of all, the parent must be able to prove to the child that he will support him in any situation. Many believe that there is nothing wrong with the conflict between the student and the teacher, and they begin to sound the alarm even after the child has a neurosis and he flatly refuses to go to school. It’s better not to bring this up, especially since in the early stages of the conflict the situation can be resolved simply by talking.
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Be sure to attend parent-teacher meetings, even if you suspect that you will hear something unpleasant there about your child. If there is any misunderstanding between the student and teacher, stay after the meeting and talk with the teacher on this topic. Most likely, this will already be enough to resolve the conflict. The teacher respects himself and will not fundamentally be at enmity with a first-grader.
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Invite the child to speak with the teacher himself, especially if your son or daughter is already in high school or even high school. Many educators like independent children who try to solve their problems without forcing parents to do this. It is likely that the teacher and the ward will find a common language without your intervention.
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Try not to make definitive conclusions. Do not tell the child telling you about the conflict with the teacher that an adult cannot be wrong and that the baby is to blame for the conflict. It’s not worth scolding his teacher at the child. The student must know that his teacher is respected in the family.
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If a conflict does happen and the parties refuse to heed each other’s opinions, try involving a school psychologist as an “independent expert”. A competent specialist will help to get out of the conflict without losing the dignity of both the baby and the adult.
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In an extreme case, if understanding is not obtained at all and the teacher and the student become blood enemies, think about transferring the child to another class or even to another school. This will save your nerves and your son or daughter, and you and the teacher.