Love is a wonderful feeling to which many books are devoted. Everyone associates it with something pure, clear. In fact, it is heaven on earth. Happiness, absolute unclouded by nothing, happiness, in the heart with which everyone would like to live a lifetime. Falling in love is fleeting and short-lived, it is easy to experience and be disappointed, and in order to save your heart for a real feeling, it is necessary to distinguish between these two concepts.
Instruction manual
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First of all, you need to understand that love and love are two stages of a feeling of deep affection, which flow from one another, but never go hand in hand.
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Recognize love as a fact. This is a natural state of the beginning of a relationship; it is characterized by idealization of the partner and “hanging” on him of those qualities that he does not possess. That is, of course, he has several qualities that are very impressive to you, but you don’t even consider all the other qualities, you don’t even think about seeing them.
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Understand that sooner or later the euphoria disappears, those qualities that you did not expect to see, or you saw, but ignored because you were blinded by feeling, begin to manifest. Only at this stage can you say with certainty whether there is love between you or not.
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Outline the main indicators for two questions: do you like the shortcomings that are in this person? And do you want to continue building relationships with him after the initial euphoria has passed?
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If you answer both of these questions positively, know that this is love. After all, if we really accept the shortcomings of a person, and not just accept, but we like them, and if we agree to go with this person to the end - this is love. Because love is a feeling, and love is a long and painstaking work to create an ideal world for two whose feelings for each other are mutual.
Useful advice
Know how to stop and analyze the situation in time - this will save you from unnecessary heart wounds.