Even between loving people, quarrels over trifles are not excluded. But this does not mean that swearing over trifles is normal and harmless. Constant bickering can ruin relationships and kill love. If you do not want to allow this, identify the reasons why you quarrel with your loved one for insignificant reasons.
True reasons
Quarrels over trifles are based on more serious, important reasons. And deep down, even the brawlers themselves realize this. It turns out that people swear on insignificant occasions instead of discussing the real problems that they have in tandem. But whether they do the right thing by letting out steam, dispensing with little blood, is another question.
The inability to forgive, the lack of the ability to give in, to compromise - these are often the reasons why people quarrel over trifles. Perhaps in a pair there is a confrontation at an unconscious level. One partner wants to prevail over another, impose his own habits and rules. This position is not productive, as it cannot lead to a positive result.
Sometimes people use an insignificant trifle only as an excuse to break loose on loved ones. Bad mood, bad day, trouble at work, fatigue affect the individual, and he is looking for a victim. Naturally, this does not justify the person. Not wanting to solve his problems or somehow relax, he asserts himself at the expense of a partner or partner.