It is difficult to communicate with a person and trust him, knowing that he is prone to lies. The situation is even more complicated when the communication partner is openly lying and not afraid of negative consequences. This behavior should be stopped in the bud.
Do not be silent
Lying is unpleasant and excludes further trust. The best thing you can do in dealing with deceivers is to exclude them from your circle of communication. However, such a solution may not always be simple and possible. Often the closest people lie, who have to be forgiven and believe that everything will work out.
Only on one faith and endless forgiveness can you go far. You need to deal with your partner’s lying tendencies and pay attention to it. Many people who are inclined to lie do this because of excitement. They like to feel their invulnerability, and they are carried away by a possible situation of persecution. They understand that they can be caught and try to lie much more believable.
However, if the deceptions go away once, the other, liars relax and believe that they are dealing with amateurs, for which you can not strain with a careful selection of versions. The lie grows like a snowball, and from this the situation only worsens. Therefore, you can’t be silent when you are frankly lying. Every time emphasize that you are well aware of the truth.
Make fun of the liar
Liars are usually very arrogant people who think that they will get away with it. Understanding that you are blatantly lying to ridicule a lying person and pay attention to the fact that he does not really know how to lie.
Firstly, such a reaction will confuse the deceiver, because he expects in the worst case outrage, but not shame. A light ironic attitude will also emphasize your indifference to his behavior, which can become an offensive and unpleasant revelation for him.
People inclined to lie love to get a lot of attention to their person, and therefore indifference and laughter can be worse than contempt.
Publicly reveal cheating
Find the opportunity to publicly reveal the behavior of a lying person. In the presence of authoritative people, this dramatic scene will look rather shameful and painful for him.
Just keep calm while keeping your emotions in check. Do not talk pathetic phrases about disappointments and make screams about how tired you are. Calmly bring facts refuting the false statement, turn around and leave the partner alone with his lies.