Every day is filled with a mass of everyday trifles. More often they annoy, and sometimes even unsettle you. It is important to learn to think and live in a positive way and not pay attention to the annoying little things in life.
Instruction manual
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Unpleasant moments can distract from the main things. Set a goal, not necessarily for life, it may be a plan for the day or for the current week. Follow the plan, do not abandon what you started because of small obstacles that arise, just make small adjustments to your schedule and move on to the goal.
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Try to see the positive aspects in daily details. For example, if you didn’t catch your bus, don’t get angry and do not stand at the bus stop waiting for the next one, walk a bit on foot. A walk in the fresh air will improve your mood. Do not pay increased attention to annoying little things, learn how to benefit from them. Have your favorite pastries ended up at the cafe? This is an opportunity to try something new and expand your gastronomic preferences. Did an important meeting fail? Spend this evening with friends or have an unusual family dinner. Spontaneous events are usually the most successful.
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Most often, people are unbalanced by unpleasant small things and habits of their beloved people. Does your spouse have a minor flaw that annoys you? It is unlikely that it will turn out all my life not to pay attention to him. Take advantage of the trick as a compromise. A loved one throughout the apartment scatters his belongings? Forgive him this trifle in exchange for fulfilling your unloved household chores. For example, you fold clothes, and your spouse washes dishes. In addition, the everyday trifles of life are more than compensated by the merits of loved ones.
Useful advice
Sometimes little things can be very useful. In building a career, you need to familiarize yourself with all the subtleties of work. Pay attention to details, draw conclusions and learn lessons. Often the most important thing is hidden in the details. In the words of Michelangelo Buonarotti: "Attention to detail gives rise to perfection, but perfection is no longer a trifle."