Lying is such a frequent occurrence that many simply stopped paying attention to it. However, for many, a lie becomes a real problem; some experts classify it even as a disease. At the initial stage, these are just innocent exaggerations and omissions, but in the end they can destroy a person’s life, deprive a family and loved ones.
Instruction manual
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Sometimes it seems that no one will learn about lies, no one will reveal secrets. This is mistake. Lying can lead to the loss of loved ones. It doesn’t matter what you lied about, sooner or later all this will be revealed. Your soulmate may perceive a lie as a betrayal. If you hide treason, then what kind of trust and what kind of relationship you can talk about at all.
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A loving person should be frank with a loved one, trust him as himself. It happens that people begin to lie out of hopelessness, out of fear of losing a loved one, but the relationship after that will never be the same. Lies poison the soul, it is able to swallow a person, eats from the inside. One way or another, by no means every couple is able to survive an even uncovered lie.
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Cheating leads to the loss of friends. Often a person exaggerates his success in order to show himself in a more advantageous light. Someone, perhaps, believes that a lie can help save loved ones, find new friends. Some are simply afraid that they are not worthy of friendship. They hide behind a veil of lies and bluff, trying to hide their own complexes and fears. But the more people get closer, the more difficult it is to lie, the more difficult it is to control their feelings. It is at this stage that a friendship built on a lie is most often destroyed. Of course, this leaves deep spiritual trauma and entails the appearance of even more internal problems.
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Lying in extreme forms can lead to loss of oneself. A sense of self-worthiness arises, each new day seems worse than the previous one. Sooner or later, such a state overtakes every liar, some call it a manifestation of conscience. In such a situation, the worst thing is that there is no one to talk about with anyone, because everyone around us thinks that everything is fine, the person’s life is beautiful.
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Often the person himself, being at the peak of despair, ceases to understand where the truth is and where is the fiction. The most important thing is to break out of this seemingly vicious circle in time. Only a very close person can help this, who is not afraid to reveal his soul. If this is not found, it is better to consult a psychologist, a specialist will help to understand the situation and solve the accumulated internal problems.
note
A lie can push away from a person not only relatives, it makes you hate yourself.
Useful advice
Do not wait for the moment when the lie will drive you into a corner, you need to seek help.