Often we are simply afraid to admit to ourselves that the former feeling is no longer there, but sometimes we cannot see obvious things at point blank range. Be attentive to yourself and the little things, or use a few tips.
Instruction manual
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One of the first signs that family psychologists highlight is the appearance of a negative reaction to what seemed previously cute. For example, you always liked the hair of a partner or his nose and suddenly it starts to enrage and annoy you. You begin to find more and more faults and to find fault with them. As they say, when they love, they even like disadvantages. If you begin to annoy the partner’s shortcomings, think about it.
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You have ceased to like bodily contact. This is not only about kisses and making love, but also simple touches. You do not give yourself a hug and a pat. Do not feel the need for touch. You are annoyed by the frequent attention to yourself on the part of the partner. It is possible that you have a serious depression or other illness due to which you have lost the joy of communication, but it is still worth considering, the reason may be more obvious.
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Another point that will help to understand that love is leaving you is the reluctance to consider a partner. You no longer need visual contact. At the beginning of your relationship, you would like to constantly study the facial features of your partner, follow his movements, look into his eyes. So, if the feelings are really real similar manifestations, you will remain even after fifty years. Of course, you will not have such a desire as often as at the beginning of a relationship, but it will definitely be. If this does not exist for more than a few months, then you definitely cool off to each other.
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Another point is the loss of interest in conversations. Conversations begin to be purely formal. They are getting shorter. The bowl is abstract in nature. Often, the partners then admit to relatives and friends that after talking they feel tired, as if someone had emptied them and pulled all the energy out of them.