As a social being, a person lives among his own kind. But this is not enough for him. For a full-fledged existence, each of us needs people who are psychologically close to us. And we find those who then become our friends or lovers. If you are lonely and need communication, then you just need to find a loved one for a full existence.
Instruction manual
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Do not sit at home, communicate more often with people, go on trips. You will probably find a person close in spirit in those places that are interesting and in which you yourself like to be. If you have any hobby, then a person who shares it can surely become close to you. Find yourself an activity that captivates you, and then you will meet a lot of people who also like this activity, and among them there will be someone who will suit you for your other qualities.
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To recognize how psychologically close a person is to you, or to understand that he is not suitable for you, you can only open your soul and heart to him, at least partially. A direct, confidential conversation will help you understand how your views on life and principles coincide. Even if two people have completely different characters, this will not become an obstacle to real intimacy if they relate equally or perceive a particular event and phenomenon. Many psychologists believe that only different and even completely opposite in terms of character and temperament people can become ideal partners for each other.
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If you are looking for a loved one of the opposite sex to create a family, then be careful and do not accept physical attraction for spiritual intimacy. It often happens that sexual attractiveness becomes the main criterion when choosing a partner, but then, when the passion passes, people become strangers to each other.
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And it also happens that it helps to find a loved one not by cold calculation and rational approach, but by subconscious attraction. Do not resist him, even if it seems to you that this person does not suit you at all. It is not always useful to trust such a choice only to the mind. If you are ready to both get close, then you can adjust to each other, adjusting your behavior and personal qualities, becoming truly close people