Failures seem to haunt individual people, and they gradually get used to the idea that success passes by. Such people believe that plans will necessarily collapse, and this belief is based on personal experience. To turn the tide, you need to understand the causes of what is happening and learn to act differently.
Instruction manual
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Watch the heroes of the movie "Diamond Arm". While viewing, write out on a piece of paper every case of the slightest failure. An analysis of the film will help you understand how to get rid of bad luck.
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Analyze each failure of the film’s heroes and think about how a person should have acted so that everything goes differently. Imagine yourself as a director who needs to remake the film in a different scenario to make superheroes out of losers who have everything under control. Review each episode in the list in step one.
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Write a list of areas of life or specific cases in which you cannot succeed. It is important to notice the system: for example, you are constantly late for work and you have to make excuses to the boss. This indicates a lack of habit of leaving home in advance. In the same way, you can be late for an airplane, an important meeting, etc. At the root of most failures are inappropriate habits.
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Think about what actions to change. Perform an analysis similar to parsing a movie.
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Start developing new habits - it will change your whole life. Do not take up everything at once so as not to fall into despair about the amount of work ahead. If you don’t know where to start, think in which direction to make one change, the consequences of which will change your life beyond recognition. If you are late everywhere, you will suddenly start to be in time on time. One change leads to this - time planning with a margin in case of traffic jams, etc. Come everywhere before everyone else, and use the extra time to tidy clothes, shoes, hair and read inspirational, educational literature. Make no exceptions, and people will start to treat you differently, and this is just one change in life.
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Learn to see alternative scenarios in any situation. For each of them, think over the possible risks and prepare for them in advance. When you are going to your mom’s birthday, don’t expect to buy flowers at a familiar place where grandmothers always trade. Think about what happens if it starts to rain, which will disperse all the merchants. This is one of the alternative options that must be calculated in advance so as not to be late for your birthday and come with flowers. This attitude to life will save you from bad luck.
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