You broke up, but he is trying to get you back. Can one give in to his exactingness and promises and renew relations? Here's a quick overview of men who are definitely not worth your attention.
Alcoholic
Whether he got drunk every night with friends or several times a month, his attitude to alcohol was a frequent subject of your debate. Maybe he is not at the stage of hiding a bottle of vodka in a chest of drawers, but you had a reasonable suspicion that he drank a lot more than most people, and especially it seemed to you. Forget that you can remake the alcoholic or that he will change because of you.
Addict
Did he play slot machines or even have a passion for drugs? Now he wants to return and claims that he will never be able to overcome his addiction without you, and you are his last hope for a return ticket to normal life. He emotionally blackmails you and makes you responsible for his fate. Do not let him manipulate you, he must fight his dependence, first of all, along with expert advice. You can offer your support, but do not try to deal with his problems alone. More likely is the option that you ride downhill together.
Bully
Has he ever slapped you? Then the choice is clear. In no case and under no circumstances give him a second chance. There is no excuse for violence; no one has the right to it, even in a fit of anger. The man who hit you once will do it again at any time.
