Failures are inevitable - you should come to terms with this, taking up any serious business. Your project, even in the most serious and carefully prepared way, may fail if critical errors were made. Even if you did everything right, fate may spread a black strip of bad luck in front of you instead of the red carpet. This is true when it comes to ideas about improving one’s life, as well as work plans, even relationships with important people can fail. It must be understood that no one is safe from unfavorable resolution of the situation.
Instruction manual
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Faced with failure, all people behave differently. Someone takes it very painfully, and someone is able to quickly extract errors and move on. Some take years to analyze the failure, there are even people who do not dare to try their hand at such a thing for many years, if not all of their future lives. What is failure? What is the correct behavior - to abandon attempts or to achieve results at all costs where you did not succeed the previous time? Psychologists say that failure can be described as an emotional trauma that is perceived and leaves traces not only in the head, but throughout the body.
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If you have failed some important matter, then in order to cope with the failure, take this lesson and move on, overcoming the trauma, you need to come to terms with what happened. Accept the fact that the important thing for you did not end in the most favorable way. Recognize that, whatever the reason, accusations against you will not fix anything. Constantly worrying about what happened and poisoning yourself with thoughts that you are a bad or worthless person, getting angry for your mistakes is a mistake that will ruin your mood, well-being and even health in the long run. Yes, failure has happened. In past! It's time to step further, leaving her behind.
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To reproach yourself and to remember previous mistakes before important events, as well as to condemn others, accusing them of possibly interfering with you - this will not allow you to cope with failure, it will only hurt you. Forgive yourself and others for the mistakes that caused it. You tried - and that already means a lot!
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Analyze what happened. What did you do wrong, what should you learn, what mistakes should not be made in the future? Failures are a way to find out how strong people are and what their true face is. Only in a critical situation will you be able to learn something new about yourself that could not appear for a long time. If your shortcomings prevented you from achieving your goal, find them and realize them. To defeat failure, cope with your negative aspects. Learn a lesson and become aware of it, write down your thoughts on this topic.
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Having failed, in no case do not give up. Try further, and your goal will surely get close enough to grasp it. You took into account your mistakes, forgave yourself and accepted the fact that at some point you didn’t succeed, but now it's time to move on, towards your most cherished dreams.