Delight is a strong feeling, but not everyone can safely express it without embarrassment. Sometimes people hide their good attitude because they cannot find the right words for him. The art of praise can be learned using simple techniques.
Instruction manual
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Remember that open flattery can drive your interlocutor into the paint. Therefore, expressing your enthusiasm directly, pre-select the exact words, among which should be not only “adore” and “cool”. It is very useful to think over your enthusiastic speech in advance, even if you have very little time for it. Then the effect will be stronger.
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Let the person understand that you are attentive to him, do not spare the bright details. So, praising a scientific work, note its strengths in specific figures and calculations, and saying a compliment to the girl, mention that only she has such a delicate turquoise eye color. You can arrange a rehearsal of your "throne speech" in front of the mirror, then you will be less embarrassed.
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Remember that praising a person is appropriate. It is ideal to do this at a holiday, party, but a boring work environment can blur the impression. In no case do not disturb a person with night calls, even for the most joyful occasion.
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If nevertheless you are overcome by shyness, express warm words on paper. You can pick up a card with a funny pattern, an e-mail message is also suitable, as well as a humorous SMS message that should be supplemented with a fun melody and picture that accurately reflects your mood.
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Let your praise be a little performance. It can be timed, for example, on the birthday of the subject of your enthusiasm. Pick up a gift, compose a humorous poem that will tell about your emotions in the simplest form. Do not worry about rhyme, the main thing is sincerity and a winning attitude.
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If you cannot find the right words, do not despair. Sometimes the best way to express enthusiasm is to do a good deed, help a person without expecting anything in return. And then your action will be more eloquent than the most flowery compliments.