You may have noticed that some people in any company are completely free, while others are completely lost and begin to say stupid things. The former, due to their confidence and ease, usually have many friends. To become such a person, you need to know the rules of easy communication.
Instruction manual
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Stay confident at any event and in any society. Be polite, in order to avoid embarrassing situations, observe the rules of etiquette. Feel free to make new acquaintances, especially among smart and intelligent people.
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Entering into a conversation, behave kindly, discarding all negativity. Even if your negative mood does not appear outwardly, it will still be transmitted to your interlocutor, and he will be closed for communication.
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Learn to find topics for easy communication. It is very important that this topic is close and interesting to all participants in the conversation. In this case, your genuine interest will cause trust and respect.
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Watch the speed of speech - do not chatter or splash out too much information on a person. Ideally, if you communicate together, your statements should be only 40%. Listen more and show interest in the person you are talking to.
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Ask only open-ended questions, that is, those that require a detailed answer. So you will not let the conversation fade. Be sure to wait until the person finishes his thought. And do not rush to ask the next question - you have a conversation, not an interrogation.
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Give others a compliment. Try to keep them original, reasonable and appropriate.
note
It should be remembered that a casual conversation will not work if a person is in a hurry somewhere, is worried or busy with something. Never “load” your interlocutors with too detailed or inappropriate information - this is hardly interesting to anyone. Touching controversial topics or zealously defending your point of view is also not worth it.
Useful advice
You will always find topics for an easy conversation, if you follow book updates and the latest developments in the world of culture, cinema, theater and sports. To this end, you can find for yourself some original hobby that will cause the interest of others.