Quite often, a woman suffers from a sense of her own worthlessness. This problem is especially acute for non-working women who sit at home with children. A woman who has earned before, begins to feel useless, even if she maintains a family budget. So how do you begin to respect yourself and feel needed?
Instruction manual
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Become your own. If a person is not interested in himself, then he is not interested in others. Therefore, remember that you are a woman. Do not bury yourself in household chores, take time for yourself. At least an hour, but it will be your personal time. Tragedy does not happen if the stove remains unwashed for an hour, and dad looks after the child, or he plays on his own. This hour can be devoted to caring for your own appearance. A face mask, manicure, a bath with fragrant foam have not hurt anyone. And the mood will be lifted for sure. Read a book, watch an interesting movie, sleep, in the end.
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You will have to work hard, but realize and accept that homework is also work. It’s just that you don’t get paid for it. This work is no less responsible than that of your husband. You create all the conditions for your husband to come home to get a good rest. And this cannot but affect the efficiency of his work. So how can you feel unnecessary, playing such an important role in your family life?
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Equip your home. Create a worthy hearth for your family fire. The cozy interior, delicious food, a joyful child will incredibly delight her husband who returned from work. Indeed, all this allows him to gain strength before a new working day. And if some interior details are done with your hands, then you will only “grow” in your eyes and the eyes of your loved ones. And it doesn’t matter what it will be - pillows embroidered with a cross or designer furniture and interior details made by your hands.
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In the end, you can start making money at home. Write articles, create sites, type texts. Your earnings will depend entirely on the time spent. You may not make a lot of money, but you can feel yourself needed. And when you yourself gain weight in your eyes, then in the eyes of others you will look much more significant.