Having met your soul mate, it seems that love will be eternal. At first, there is not even a thought that something might go wrong, that feelings can be clouded in the future by everyday problems. Love is blind and this does not allow you to immediately recognize all the shortcomings of a partner. Time passes, and it becomes more and more difficult to resist disagreements and disappointment in love.
You will need
Patience, common sense.
Instruction manual
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It's time to learn to talk with a soulmate in the same language. Quite often, after another quarrel, people disperse in different angles and think about the injustice in relation to themselves of their chosen one. Serious conversation is much more effective than a stormy showdown, because you can safely explain to your partner the essence of the problem and resolve the conflict in a peaceful way. Staying in love will help to discuss all the problems together. After all, if you do not solve the exciting issue now, it will pop up later and again all will end with insults, an unfair conviction. It is better not to waste time and not to delay the conversation.
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Beat on pride is contraindicated. If the second half doesn’t act like everyone else in a certain situation, this does not mean that the person is abnormal or out of date, he simply has his own point of view and an extraordinary solution to resolve the problem. Most likely, it is this feature of a loved one that attracts the most.
Do not give empty promises. If a decision is made and made public, there is no need to change it, this can lead to distrust and the chosen one will cease to take seriously everything that you say.
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You need to feel sorry for each other, to sympathize, but not to appeal to pity. You should not constantly ask for something and blackmail. It will not be possible to resist love on the principle: you are to me, and I am to you. Threats also do not lead to understanding; they can only achieve a negative attitude towards oneself. There are no ideal people, so you always have to put up with minor flaws, without which existence is simply impossible and adapt to each other.
In love, it’s impossible to just “take”, a loved one always expects bestowal, fulfillment of his requests and attention to his person. To live together happily ever after, you need to protect your relationship.
note
Harmonious relationships need to be built day after day for many months, being careful, because one wrong act can nullify all efforts.
Useful advice
Suppress anger in yourself, love is the support of a loved one in every minute of life together, and not power over a person.