Unrequited love is a fairly common occurrence. Having met and loved a person, you, unfortunately, cannot always count on mutual feelings. But you can make attempts to provoke reciprocal passion.
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Analyze the current situation - do you have at least some chances? Theoretically, there are always chances, but in reality, everything may not be as simple as you would like. For example, your chosen one or chosen one has a family, children, a strong reliable marriage. In this case, you are unlikely to achieve mutual love, and is it worth it? Remember that happiness built at the cost of suffering of other people, as a rule, does not bring the expected satisfaction.
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If the object of your lofty feelings is free, try to conquer it. If you have known and even been friends for a long time, it will be easy enough for you to move to a new status, on the one hand, you just have to show more tenderness, feelings, hint about your indifference to people. On the other hand, he is used to seeing you as a friend, so he does not notice a woman or a man in you. In any case, if you love your friend, make careful attempts to get closer together. Do not force events, otherwise you can ruin everything. Gradually, step by step, direct your relationship in the direction you need.
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Having fallen in love with a stranger, first of all, get to know him. Do it carefully, unobtrusively. Find a reason to meet you, or ask common friends to introduce you, and only after that proceed to the conquest of the desired object. There are many specific options for action, it all depends on the situation. Representatives of the weaker sex can use all their charm and apply various female tricks, the stronger sex will need to take advantage of the techniques from the area of the male arsenal of seduction. But before rushing into the maelstrom of passion with your head, talk with a person, understand whether he really matches your ideas about him.
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Remember that there is nothing worse than a lie. Do not try to appear who you are not. Be yourself, while you have all the opportunities for harmonious self-development. Become an interesting self-sufficient person, broaden your horizons - for sure your chosen one will appreciate it. Find out what the object of your love likes, what its interests, goals in life, hobbies are. Start doing something close to his hobbies so that you have common topics for conversation.
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Consider that the universal formula of love does not exist, many people cannot even single out the exact moment of the appearance of this exalted feeling. Each specific situation has its own characteristics and depends not only on you, but also on the feelings of another person. Therefore, do not try to suppress his will and fall in love with your chosen one or chosen one by force, for example, using a magic love spell. It will bring nothing but disappointment and other serious problems.
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If you have known each other for quite some time, but he or she stubbornly does not notice the signs of your love, admit your feeling. Invite your loved one to a cafe or restaurant, say that you need to talk seriously. Do not be afraid to take a decisive step, accept with dignity and respect any answer. One of the biggest mistakes is the fear of confessing your feelings. A man is afraid of failure - and hides his love. If you find yourself in such a situation, pull yourself together and take a decisive step. Yes, they may refuse you - accept this option, reconcile with it. Consider that this has already happened, which means you have nothing to fear. Tell us about your love - even if you are refused, you will at least clarify the situation. Moreover, the refusal in itself does not mean anything - on the contrary, you will have the opportunity to open to express your feelings, to conquer the object of your love with decisive actions. Do you want happiness? Then act!