Man is intelligent, and hardly anyone will argue with this. But it cannot be denied that sometimes the human mind is captured by emotions and feelings. This is especially dangerous if you need to make a serious decision.
Instruction manual
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Making a decision when the mind is powerless is extremely difficult. To do this, try to find the line between the tips of the subconscious and subjective sensations that are not based on important things. Focus, try to look at yourself from the side. In order to do this, use the tool that has been tested by many generations of people - meditation.
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If you can’t look at events with the eyes of an outsider, use the help of another person. It is better if you turn to a friend with whom you have not too close relations, since good friends usually worry about their comrade no less than about themselves.
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Before making a decision, if the mind is powerless, write down everything that worries you on a piece of paper. This will help you concentrate, understand the situation, allow you to cool down a bit. Remember, emotions are the worst enemy of serious thought.
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If you need to solve an important issue without enough information, for example, choose between two young people, listen to the voice of intuition. Where logic does not help, feelings help. Know that nature has made sure that people can analyze what is happening. Sometimes even that which, it would seem, is not given importance is remembered, then this information comes in handy in life. Returning to the example with the choice of a guy, we can say that in the girl’s memory the smallest gestures of guys remain, phrases that can tell a lot.
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And the last - try not to doubt. Even if the decision you make turns out to be erroneous, still such a result is better than the absence of any result. Having doubts, you lose time and risk completely missing it, but life does not forgive it. Do not go with the flow. Be a strong, strong-willed person. Do not be afraid to admit your mistakes, analyze what is happening, and perhaps making decisions will become much easier for you.