The desire to win is genetically embedded in a person, since those who sought to become the best survived in the process of evolution. As soon as we stop in our own development, we begin to degrade. What you need to know to become a winner in life?
1. Set yourself a goal, and break it into a number of specific tasks. The main criterion for whether you won or lost is the achievement of your goal. So, let's say our goal is to eat a sandwich. For this (task) you need to cut the bread and spread it with butter.
2. Control your actions. From time to time ask yourself: “What am I doing now, brings me closer to the goal or moves away from it”? If you find that you are smearing a table with oil, even if you do it well, you need to correct the situation.
3. Consider a fallback. E. Burn wrote that the winner knows what he will do if he does not succeed in achieving the goal, while the loser only says what he will do when he reaches his goal. What if there is no oil? Would you like bread with jam? If there is no bread, where and how can you get it?
4. Do not stop halfway and be persistent. Knock and they will open you, do not open the door - knock on the window, call on the phone, use any opportunity. You remembered that you saw a neighbor’s bread - ask, is it over? - ask for money for bread.
5. Be flexible. If you are knocking on both the door and the window, but they don’t open it for you, maybe it’s just that nobody is at home now, and is it worth coming tomorrow? It is hardly appropriate to go to a neighbor at one in the morning.
6. Remember why and for what you are doing what you are doing, it will add you strength and make you move on. It seems to you that eating a sandwich is a difficult task that not many people can afford and already want to abandon this venture? Remember, then a feeling of satiety awaits you, will we still endure hunger?
7. Improve yourself and learn from the best. Do not be afraid to play with a strong opponent, this will allow you to understand how and why he wins, and you can learn this. Competing with weak people, we only strengthen the illusion of our own strength. You tasted the most delicious and satisfying sandwich (with sausage) - find out its recipe and bring the process of its preparation to perfection.